The couple who wants a DJ that turns the reception into a full blown night club. The couple who wants something so mellow and intimate they actually get to sit and talk to every single guest. The couple who wants the outdoor ceremony in the NC heat because they've always pictured saying their vows under the sky. The couple who wants the ice cream truck even though their mom thinks it's a terrible idea.

Cookie-cutter weddings are boring as HELL...

Every couple that comes to us is different. And we mean really different.

We f*cking love all of it. The more creative the better.

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Rachel Kasliner

"They were so patient, kind, and meticulous. making everything goes smoothly. Communication with them was on point and they made us feel as if we were their top priority. As members of the LGBTQ+ community, it was important that we find vendors that aligned with our values and provided a safe space. Arnisha and Yaz exceeded our expectations in finding phenomenal vendor team! They will not disappoint and provide you a stellar experience at an affordable price. Book them, NOW!!”

"Arnisha, Yaz, and their team were the glue that held our wedding together!"

As an LGBTQ+ couple planning their wedding in the NC Triad, they partnered with The Gaither Collective for full-service wedding planning and design to bring their unique vision to life.

Inspired by dark, moody aesthetics with a touch of country charm, their day featured a thoughtfully curated design, a plated dinner experience, and a seamless flow from start to finish.

Over the course of a year, our team worked closely with Rachel and Nisha to source trusted vendors, create custom design mockups, and handle every planning detail—building a genuine friendship along the way.

Even while on maternity leave, Arnisha showed up to support their rehearsal, a testament to the relationship and care that defines our approach.

From concept to execution, this Burlington, NC wedding reflects how we help couples across the Triad create celebrations that feel deeply personal, beautifully designed, and completely unforgettable.

Rachel and Nisha’s wedding in Burlington, North Carolina was a beautiful celebration of love, personality, and intentional design. 

Edward Terrell

"She was thorough and professional, and the team that assisted us on the day of the event was great. We'd definitely recommend Arnisha and the rest of the team! “

“Arnisha did a wonderful job helping me and my wife plan our wedding."

As their wedding management team, The Gaither Collective stepped in to ensure every detail was finalized and flawlessly executed, allowing the couple to be fully present on their special day. From confirming vendors to managing the timeline, our team created a smooth, stress-free experience from start to finish. Even when unexpected rain made an appearance, Lilly and Ed didn’t miss a moment. With clear umbrellas in hand, they were still able to capture the romantic outdoor photos they had envisioned. Their Pittsboro, NC wedding is a beautiful example of how thoughtful coordination and preparation can turn any moment into something unforgettable, no matter the circumstances.

Lilly and Ed’s elegant wedding celebration in Pittsboro, North Carolina was a perfect blend of timeless style and seamless execution.

Karthik Sekar

"Arnisha is so well organized and takes the second-guessing out of wedding planning. I didn't have to worry about meeting deadlines with her at the helm.

Secondly, she understood what we were trying to do very well, and our wedding celebrations went according to plan, if not better.

Finally, Arnisha was a game-changer for the wedding day itself. She helped solve two "emergencies"--she's been there many times. We can't recommend working with Arnisha enough!”

“Arnisha helped my sister and her husband plan their wedding. We were so impressed that we requested Arnisha's services for our wedding ceremony too."

Already legally married, they wanted to create a relaxed, intentional experience focused on celebrating with their favorite people. As their full-service wedding planners, The Gaither Collective guided them through every step from sourcing a beautiful outdoor venue in Durham to curating a trusted team of vendors that aligned with their vision, including a fully vegan catering experience. With a minimal, thoughtful design approach and a strong focus on guest experience, their day felt effortless, personal, and true to who they are as a couple. Our team handled all logistics, planning, and coordination, allowing Karthik and Kimmy to be fully present and enjoy a celebration that was both unique and unforgettable. For couples searching for a wedding planner in North Carolina who can bring non-traditional wedding visions to life, this celebration is a perfect reflection of what’s possible.

Karthik and Kimmy’s wedding celebration in Durham, North Carolina was the perfect example of how meaningful a non-traditional wedding can be.

As their wedding management team, The Gaither Collective ensured every detail was thoughtfully executed, allowing the couple to be fully present and enjoy their day. With a love for butterflies at the center of their vision, Sinclair and Jared exchanged vows near the Butterfly House and incorporated a beautiful butterfly release for their first look creating a meaningful and unforgettable moment. Their wedding also featured a variety of DIY elements, and our team carefully handled setup and coordination to bring each piece together seamlessly. From managing vendors to executing a detailed timeline, this Durham, North Carolina wedding highlights how expert wedding coordination can transform a personalized vision into a smooth, stress-free, and memorable experience at a unique venue.

Sinclair and Jared’s wedding at the Museum of Life and Science was a truly unique celebration at one of the most distinctive wedding venues in Durham, NC.

Doug Runyon

"We are so thankful to her and the events team at the Durham Life and Science Museum. I recommend The Gaither Collective for your future event.”

“Arnisha was so helpful and made our daughter’s beautiful wedding go so smoothly."

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